Self-care for Grief
Grief can be an exhausting, full-body experience that completely upends your world. In the wake of profound loss, practicing self-care is not the first thing you are thinking of nor is it about fixing the pain or moving on—it is simply about treating your broken heart with the utmost gentleness. It means giving yourself permission to breathe, to rest when your body is weary, and to seek out tiny pockets of peace. Tending to your own physical and emotional needs is a vital part of finding the quiet strength needed to navigate the darkness and carry your loved one’s light forward with you.
If you are in immediate danger or need urgent medical attention, please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.
If you are experiencing an overwhelming emotional crisis, panic, or a night that feels too heavy to carry alone, please reach out to these free, confidential resources. You do not have to go through this moment by yourself.
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
- Call or Text:
988 - Available: 24/7, 365 days a year.
- What it is: A free national network that connects you directly to trained crisis counselors. You don’t have to be suicidal to call—they are there for anyone experiencing extreme emotional distress, trauma, or grief panic.
The Crisis Text Line
- Text:
HOMEto741741 - Available: 24/7.
- What it is: If speaking out loud feels like too much physical or emotional effort, this allows you to text silently with a crisis counselor to help you get grounded and catch your breath.
The Trevor Project (For LGBTQ+ Youth & Young Adults)
- Call:
1-866-488-7386or Text:STARTto678-678 - Available: 24/7.
- What it is: A specialized, safe, and judgment-free crisis intervention and support service for young people.
Some ideas for self-care.
These are just some suggestions of activities that I have done to help me heal; some I want to try in the future as well. Maybe one or more of these could help you too!
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Journaling & Junk Journaling
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Doing Yoga or Tai Chi
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Listening to music
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Taking a walk
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Taking a class or learning a new skill
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If you’re tech savvy, creating with AI
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Doing something from your bucket list
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Blowing off some steam on a golf course or at a Smash room
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Gardening or planting a tree
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Creating a blog page
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Adopting a furry friend from an animal shelter
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Reading some books
Navigating the map: Tools for the journey
“There is no single roadmap for this terrain, and you do not have to figure it out all at once. In the link below, you will find books, organizations, and digital spaces that offer steady ground whenever the path feels uncertain.”
A Legacy of Light, Born of Love
A Safe Haven for Grief
Jayna’s Garden, Southern New Jersey, United States of America
Contact: mom@jaynaslight.org
Quick Links
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